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Enhancing Relationships

PAIRS Yodi Relationship Coach App is a mobile application designed to help individuals and couples improve their relationships through personalized coaching, interactive tools, and evidence-based strategies. Our mission is to enhance the quality of relationships, foster emotional well-being, and promote healthy communication.


Yodi is 100% free!

Empower your relationships

Learn proven communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection skills.

Feel the difference

Discover immediate benefits and practical tools to improve your relationships right away.

Your own pace

Use Yodi at your own pace, with complete privacy at no cost.

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    Relationship Expectations

    Clarify relationship expectations

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    Overcome a sense of distance

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    Learn to ask for what you want

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    Communicate effectively about differences
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    Discover how to fight for your relationship
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    Get relief from painful, upsetting emotions
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    Expand self-awareness and self-esteem
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    Let go of grudges

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    Track relationship pleasure resources

How Yodi can help

  • Format - We give you the format for communicating about tricky topics that puts everyone at ease.
  • Safety - These tools allow us to tackle difficult topics while ensuring we feel safe, valued, and heard in the conversation.
  • Research- Founded in 1983 by Lori Heyman Gordon, PAIRS has had many years to refine these tools.
  • Exercises - These tools aren't silver bullets. They will only work when we are willing to practice and internalize these habits.


Explore Joyless, Mindless, Loveless Messages and Connect with the Perception Box Process

Some of the experiences you'll explore with Yodi, particularly the Joyless, Mindless, Loveless Messages exercise, align with what Elizabeth R. Koch calls the "Perception Box".


Through your exploration of Joyless, Mindless, Loveless Messages, you'll have the opportunity to overcome limiting beliefs, expand the possibilities of perception, and open yourself up to new ways of seeing and being seen.


Learn more at Unlikely Collaborators | Perception Box


Practical, Proven, Usable

The secret to a better relationship?

It isn’t a secret at all.


Yodi is based on PAIRS, the Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills program. PAIRS was developed by leading therapists and educators such as Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach and Lori Heyman Gordon to help couples, marriages and families.

PAIRS has helped therapists, counselors and also directly helped singles, couples and families improve relationships for nearly half a century. Practical skills for successful relationships, including effective communication, relationship coaching, and an AI-powered emotions mentor.

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“We use the App and love it. It's the best App we've ever encountered."

Joe and Jill Rogers

"I was skeptical about using an app for relationship coaching, but the PAIRS Yodi Relationship Coach App exceeded my expectations. The interactive modules and personalized feedback have been incredibly helpful. My partner and I have noticed significant improvements in how we resolve conflicts and express our needs. It's like having a therapist in our pocket!"

RT Henthorn

"The PAIRS Yodi Relationship Coach App has been a lifeline for us. We were on the brink of separation, but the app's structured approach helped us rebuild trust and intimacy. The daily tips and exercises are easy to follow and have made a big difference in our relationship. We're happier and more in sync now, thanks to Yodi."

Dane and Pat Zillian

“I’m far more in love with [my husband] than ever … I believe PAIRS had an important part in that process.”

Rita DeMaria, Ph.D.

Marriage and Family Therapist

Philadelphia, PA

"Refreshing and very easy to use and understand."

Chaplain Curtis Davis

US Department of Veterans Affairs

"This app is fantastic! My partner and I have been using the PAIRS Yodi Relationship Coach App for a few months, and the results are remarkable. The app's focus on mutual respect and understanding has helped us communicate more openly and honestly. It's also fun and engaging, making it easier to incorporate into our daily routine. We can't thank Yodi enough for helping us strengthen our relationship."

Bruce and Diane

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